How God is the Best Way in Tough Times

Inside:  Do we give heartfelt worship when life is going well? If you’re like me, the truest form of devotion happens after going through tough times.

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The last few weeks had been filled with tough times. A new baby, some birth related health problems, hormonal troubles and a death of a child that attended our local school. It seemed like one hard thing followed on the tail of the last hard thing.

I found myself hiding away in my room to just sit in despair. As I looked out my bathroom window, the weather seemed to share my feelings of gloom.
The black clouds enveloped the sky,  as the wind and the sleet worked in tandem to make everything appear like a cold, frozen world.

I felt like this storm would never blow over both inside and outside my body. It was slowly going to take me out. My mind constantly filled with what was wrong with me; why I couldn’t pull everything together.

Then fear entered and I questioned my faith. Did I not have enough or maybe I didn’t have the right type? How could I have confident faith in these hard times?

I wasn’t sleeping, barely eating and my sparkle had dulled to gloom.

How was I going to endure these tough times?

Why Trusting God in the Tough Times is the Best Way. Do we give heartfelt worship when life is going well? If you’re like me, the truest form of devotion happens after going through tough times.

When Weariness Sets In

I was stuck and my willpower was gone. I couldn’t get out of my funk. The purple circles were evident under my eyes, and my hair looked as though a brush hadn’t been through it in a few days. The weather outside only seemed to mock me; it’s chill tried to reach through the windows to grab at me too.

Have you been there? Those hard things that feel like they will never end and you want to wait well but you’re impatient?

On this particular day, I had had enough. I couldn’t fight any longer. In desperation, I finally surrendered my white flag and admitted to God that I was done trying in my strength. I drew my line right there on the brown tile of the bathroom floor.

It became a battle between God and myself; no advancing was going to happen for me unless I relinquished my fight to Him.

Letting God Lead in the Tough Times

What I had been trying wasn’t working. The pit of despair just got deeper and deeper. I was chasing my tail and going in pointless circles. I could either keep looking inside at what wasn’t right with my circumstance or look up and trust God knowing He would bring me through.

When I dropped to my knees in submission to God, my experience changed.

Fear became faith.
Panic turned into peace.
Grasping for control became opening and allowing God to fill me.
Real praise left my lips for God bringing me through this season,

I couldn’t change my circumstances, but I knew He could. I was out of strength and perseverance, but He had an unlimited amount.

Real Worship in Tough Times

Right there, next to the bathroom shower near the east window, my anxiety gave way to worship. Real genuine worship.

The definition of worship is the feeling or expression of reverence and adoration for a deity. Or honor given to someone in recognition of their merit. (Source: Merriam-Webster).

Do we give heartfelt worship when life is going well? If you’re like me, the truest form of devotion happens after going through tough times.

True worship is when life becomes unbearable. You drop to your knees and praise God for who He is,… Click To Tweet

For he will conceal me there when troubles come;
    he will hide me in his sanctuary.
    He will place me out of reach on a high rock (Psalm 27:5, NLT).

Could this be why God says life will bring us tough times? So we can find the right meaning of admiration of God?

The Behavior that Continues in Hard Times

The Israelites were a lot like us. When life was hard, they needed a Savior, but when life was good they trusted in themselves.

Doesn’t that make us seem like we use God? He’s only needed when we can’t figure it out or change the situation ourselves.

The background is the Israelites, lived in Jerusalem, had again fallen away from God. The prophet Isaiah warned them to return to God or judgment and destruction will come their way.

The Israelites appeared to be worshiping God, but only God could tell the truth. The Israelites decided to trust enemy nations like Assyria and Egypt instead of the faithful God, who had seen them through time and time again. The Lord told Isaiah, the Israelites didn’t offer their hearts to God as they should.

13 And so the Lord says,
“These people say they are mine.
They honor me with their lips,
but their hearts are far from me.
And their worship of me
is nothing but man-made rules learned by rote (Isaiah 29:13, NLT).

The people’s praise was lackluster and counterfeit because they had forgotten what He had done for them.

33 I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world (John 16:33, NLT).

Tough Times Get us Closer to Christ

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The joy we find in this season is from bearing out our soul to God and getting comfort, peace, and strength. Through the hard, we become reverent to the power of the Almighty.

Our eyes become open, and we start to see everything anew. God is better than He was before. We become in awe of Him, and He becomes brighter and stronger.

The memories of that day continue to play through my mind, especially when I’m in my bathroom looking out the window. I’m so thankful and humbled that God brought me through that tough time.

Father- I’m so glad you promise to stay with me and never leave me. You give me your word that I don’t need to be fearful. Help me to draw closer to you during these tough times. Allow me to see how you could use this to grow me and ultimately for your glory. Keep me focused on you. Increase my devotion to you! Amen!


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26 thoughts on “How God is the Best Way in Tough Times

  1. I’m sorry for your recent pain and struggle, Julie. I’ve been there as well and couldn’t agree more with what you’ve shared here. God is the way and those tough times really do bring us closer to Him. Many blessings and much love to you as you continue to move forward.

  2. I love this! I have been kicking around an idea similar only turned around because I have been in the suffering, O so close to God and my heart filled with Praise for a long time, I hope when things come back to some form of “new norm” that I will still have this heart for Jesus and feel this close and comforted. I will probably still write it… not sure when just an idea still. But this so spoke to where I am. Thank you, Thank you! Pinning and Sharing 8)

  3. You describe this so well, Julie! I’ve been in despair, chasing my tail around a pit only to find it getting deeper, too. I thank God that in those hard times, some of the good He makes out of it is teaching us greater dependence on Him- that is a gift! I love this line especially:

    “Through the hard, we become reverent to the power of the Almighty.

    Our eyes become open, and we start to see everything anew. ” Thank you for sharing!

  4. I love the idea of real worship! During some hard times, a friend of mine told me that worship is anything that brings a smile to the Father. That has lived as a reminder that even in times of struggle with tears rolling down my face, my actions can bring a smile to the Father. Great reminders, Julie!!

  5. Julie, I like when we’re neighbors at a linkup (Meg’s) but I hate your struggle. Trusting HIM to know best sometimes is the most difficult thing we can do YET, the best. God bless you, friend.

  6. Thanks for sharing your struggles and your joy, Julie. Those tough times are painful yet priceless… rough yet refining. And God is always faithful! Stopping by from By His Grace Bloggers 🙂

  7. Julie, thank you for sharing your heart, your struggles, and your faith. I have also experienced many struggles in the past few weeks (my husband’s emergency surgery, I caught a stomach bug, the hurricanes (I live in Central Florida so we are lifting up prayers), business challenges…the list goes on. I have my days but I rest assured trusting and believing in God’s promises. I know He will never leave me nor forsake me and for this I am grateful. And, I’ll keep your words close to heart, “The joy we find in this season is from bearing out our soul to God and getting comfort, peace, and strength. Through the hard, we become reverent to the power of the Almighty.” God bless.

  8. Reminds me of how much God directs His people to remember His past faithfulness. Remembering grows faith, doesn’t it? Worshiping through pain must be such a lovely sight to God. Wholly devoted, indeed. — Thanks for sharing, Julie. ((xoxo))

  9. Thanks Julie for your openness and revealing how God DOES help and reach us in those darkest moments and in them we find Him. “Through the hard, we become reverent to the power of the Almighty.”-Amen, sister!

  10. Julie, thanks for your honest post. These are the things we need to be transparent about. Life throws us many curveballs and doubt can easily be fed. But we need to remember His promises and truth. Thanks for sharing on Grace and Truth. I’ve chosen your post as my feature this week. Be sure to stop by and get your “I was featured” button.

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