Thanksgiving is almost here. Are you like me and have good intentions for the Holiday?
The perfectly set table, or the picture-perfect pie with the expert fluted pie crust. Will your home festive atmosphere make Martha Stewart rip out the thumbs up in approval?
Maybe you’re like me and will slap a smile on your face, and hope that I will be thankful on that day. It’s not that I’m not thankful, but the day’s circumstances can turn my thankful heart into an unappreciative heart.
We go through the Thanksgiving motions, but our hearts are devoid of the right kind of emotions.
The kids mess up the clean house before company arrives. My oven holding the 23-pound turkey is on the fritz. My oven mitt had a hole in it, I burned my hand and dropped the perfectly constructed pie.
The day flies by and soon I’m wishing for a re-do. I’m embarrassed by my attitude to others, myself and especially to God. Thankful, I what I want to be on this special day.
I made a list of things that aren’t going to rustle my feathers this year. I want to be truly thankful for this day.
First of all, I’m going to spend some extra time in the Word in the morning. What better way to prepare our hearts for thanksgiving, than in our Father’s word.
We were created to be thankful.
Now before I get to the list, I want to say as Christians every day should be thanksgiving. God has done marvelous things for us. The day of our Thanksgiving celebration could be a good reminder to show to others how thankful we are and minister to them about the great things God has done.
5 things I’m going to leave behind this year, so I don’t have to fake thankfulness:
- The hustle and bustle of Thanksgiving are not going to pin me this year. I’m going to leave Martha Stewart to her own devices and realize people are more important than the DIY dyed corn husk table settings. I will be thankful for the provision of food, even if the turkey isn’t a perfectly crafted masterpiece,
- I will not let the past or current family problems affect my mood and keep me from experiencing the fellowship of those around me. Every family has problems. God’s Golden rule plays into how we treat our family. Pain and hurt are real, I understand that, but I am choosing to overlook those feelings this year.
- I will not think about the awkwardness of spending time with family members I haven’t seen in a year. Rather I will converse and instead make the environment welcoming and inviting to others.
- I’m going to enjoy Thanksgiving in its entirety, and not get caught up in the Black Friday shopping. It’s hard to enjoy and be thankful for the day when our minds are on the sales and spendings of shopping.
- I’m going to use my time to witness to those family members that say “I don’t have anything to be thankful about.” I can remind them of the breath they just took and the home they have.
A Thankful Heart
The meaning of this special day is going to be my focus this year.
I don’t want to miss it this year, but rather have an authentic thankful heart, especially on this day. God’s blessings are all around us, won’t you be extra thankful like me this year?
So the pie isn’t perfect? Cut it into wedges. Stay in control, and never panic. ~Martha Stewart