Inside: I’ve heard that if we can’t give something up, it means we have a problem. I admit my problem is I don’t trust God enough. Six results when we seek first the Kingdom of God.
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Can you give up your child for God?
I’m not talking about giving them up for adoption, but rather if God asked you to choose between Him or your child, who would you choose?
This sickening feeling just became obvious in my stomach. I know I should choose God, but the thought of saying goodbye to my child would be too painful.
I’ve heard that if we can’t give something up, it means we have a problem. I admit my problem is I don’t trust God enough.
If I choose Him, will He comfort me enough in the loss of my child? Will He show me His plans, so I can see the good?
Why Would God ask this?
When God isn’t numero uno in our life, we are worshiping something other than Him. Now I know, you may be thinking, I’m not worshiping my child. But if something is put in the spot where God is intended, it’s an idol.
God has asked for sacrifices many times in the Bible. It was a display of worship, seeking a right relationship with him and asking for forgiveness of sins. While the act was important, God held the person’s heart attitude as more important.
God sought the best sacrifice, the treasured parts of the flock, the authentic heart based on Him. God doesn’t want something that isn’t worthwhile to us, He wants something that’s hard for us to give.
24 But the king replied to Araunah, “No, I insist on buying it, for I will not present burnt offerings to the Lord my God that have cost me nothing.” So David paid him fifty pieces of silver for the threshing floor and the oxen.
Who Do We Choose?
Here’s the moment of truth:
- Could we sacrifice this treasure?
- Are we resting on objects and people or God?
- Can our kids see Jesus as the apex of our lives?
- Would we be ok if God took any of these items out of our lives?
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Ouch, that stings, doesn’t it?
God asked Abraham to do a really hard thing- to give up his most important treasure, Isaac his son. The son he waited for 100 years. Yet, God asked Abraham to sacrifice his son Isaac as a burnt offering on Mt. Moriah.
Here’s the part that has me baffled. There is no mention of Sarah knowing what God had asked. While I don’t know for sure since the Bible doesn’t say, did Abraham even mention this to Sarah?
I think she might have had some objection over her son being sacrificed? Perhaps Abraham didn’t tell her because she would have swayed his decision? Could her faith have been less than Abraham’s?
As a mother, I’d want to be there in the final hours of my child’s life.
Seeking First the Kingdom of God
Abraham started early the next morning, loaded the donkeys with firewood, gathered his servants and headed on a 3-day journey to the mountain. Once he arrived there, he left the servants behind, and Isaac and he finished the rest of the journey.
9 When they arrived at the place where God had told him to go, Abraham built an altar and arranged the wood on it. Then he tied his son, Isaac, and laid him on the altar on top of the wood. 10 And Abraham picked up the knife to kill his son as a sacrifice. 11 At that moment the angel of the Lord called to him from heaven, “Abraham! Abraham!”
“Yes,” Abraham replied. “Here I am!”
12 “Don’t lay a hand on the boy!” the angel said. “Do not hurt him in any way, for now I know that you truly fear God. You have not withheld from me even your son, your only son” (Genesis 22:9-12, NLT).
God then provided a ram. Isaac was safe because God had provided in a different way.
Could we do it? Do we trust God enough for Him to take our idols and carry us through the absence of what we lost?
Through this test, Abraham proved God was his all in all. Are you committed to Him?
What can we learn from Abraham about when God asks us to give something up:
- We don’t need to advertise to others what is an idol in our life, or what we give up. It’s between God and us.
- We need to trust and be in a daily relationship with God.
- We need to follow through even when we don’t know God’s reasoning.
- God will step in and change the situation and you will experience change you haven’t seen before.
- God will become your all in all.
- Your strengthened relationship with God will flow into your other earthly relationships.
I don’t know about you, but I still don’t know if I could do it? I’m saddened to admit this, but trust is my issue. Maybe that’s why Abraham is in the Great Hall of Faith and I’m not.
In reality, God won’t ask us to do this. However, He will allow us to go through seasons of testing our reliance and trust in Him. He wants to see how committed and dependent we are on Him. I know I need to be more trusting, dependent and faithful to what He asks me to do. He needs to be my all in all and the priority of my life. I need to secure Him in this spot and keep others things from trying to occupy it.
When He’s my numero uno, I won’t be afraid to give up the items I hold dear.
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